Have you met a Cancerian woman recently? Are you a little confused as to what
she really is - chirpy, somber or distant? She is all of these and still, she
is none of these. Even more confused? A Cancerian woman has mood swings every now and then and these are only a few of her mood swings. However, her basic personality traits remain the same. She is very sensitive, emotional, kind and caring. Now’s the catch! Most of her traits will be hidden behind a shell of indifference and aloofness, breaking which will require quite a lot of effort.
You will have to gently coerce a Cancerian girl to get out of her shell and
come into the big bad world without it. The best time to do this is in the
moonlight, when there are maximum changes of catching her in her true
emotions. When in love, she will be tender, womanly, timid and modest. She
dislikes criticisms, can’t stand rejection and gets deeply hurt by harsh
words. Too much aggressiveness on your part may make her a little hesitant.
She loves her mother, so you better learn to love as well as respect her too.
A Cancer woman will never make the first moves in a relationship; she only
knows how to move backwards or sideways. This is because of two reasons, her
shyness and her fear of being rejected. This female has some secrets and she
won’t like you prying around her personal diary. She is very insecure and will
need your constant reassurance. It doesn’t matter if she is the current ‘Miss
Universe’ or has men drooling over her all the time, it is your attention and
appreciation she would be the most concerned about.
You will have to learn to live with a Cancerian woman’s mood swings, which is
not so difficult since she is so good in every other way. She is extremely
loyal and will keep you happy with her warm and rich humor. Once she is
committed to you, she will remain yours forever and ever. Adultery is not one
of her traits. With a Cancerian woman, you will always have to be careful with
words. She is very sentimental and can get hurt very easily. Then, she can cry
like a 2-year old baby and you will be expected to console her and wipe her
tears.
A Cancer female is a great cook and makes better food than a 5-star hotel
chef. She is quite careful with money as well. Neither will she be stingy, nor
totally extravagant. She has a habit of saving everything that is usable, be
it money, old buttons or empty jars. She also saves things that have a
sentimental value attached to them, like the sweater grandmother knitted on
her fifth birthday. A Cancer female fiercely guards what is hers and that
includes you too! However, she is not too possessive or jealous. But, she does
not like sharing her love too.
She is one of those people who do not crib about bad luck. She will get
depressed and may shed a few tears alone, but she will be patient and wait for
the time to change again, this time in her favor. Almost all the Cancerians
have the desire of being pampered like a child, especially when they feel low.
Don’t forget to pay your Cancer girl extra attention when she is depressed,
otherwise she may retreat deeper into her shell. And then, it will be very
difficult to bring her back to her normal self.She will want to be told time and again that she is still desirable and you still need her. However, she is not weak and is completely capable of looking after herself. In fact, she is one of those who sacrifice all that they have, for their loved ones. She just needs some spoiling after every few days. A Cancerian woman may be fragile as far as her feelings are concerned, but when you need her, she will be as strong as the ‘Rock of Gibraltar’. She will also be very protective of her children and make them feel completely secure.Kids will be the center of her universe and she will pamper them with her love, affection and care. The children will also be very close to her and no
matter how much far they go from home, they will come back to her and she will
know this. A Cancer female always needs you, but she will never get too
aggressive. She knows that you may leave for a while, to follow your dreams,
but in the end, she is the one you will come back to. Then, you will find her
as charming as before, waiting for you with freshly baked bread and hot soup.
She will feed you, listen to your worries and make you smile again!

just read if you want to understand me and other cancers xD
everything is true except for being a great cook ((:

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